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common mistakes of beginning memoir writers

Seven Mistakes Beginners Make, but You Won't

Beginner Mistakes in Memoir Writing

These common mistakes that beginners make when trying to write a memoir could tank the success of your book.  But you won't make these mistakes.

Not having a clear focus:

A memoir should have a clear focus and theme. It’s important to identify the key message or lesson that you want to convey through your story. Learn more about theme in memoir.

Including too much information:

It’s important to be selective about the information you include in your memoir. Not everything that happened in your life needs to be included in your story.

Focusing too much on events and not enough on emotions:

While events are important, the emotions and feelings behind those events make a memoir an absorbing read. In first-person writing the voice of the narrator and their inner and outer journey can create a layered and satisfying read.

Not paying attention to structure and plot:

A memoir should have a logical structure that helps the reader follow the story. It’s important to consider how to structure your memoir as you move beyond exploratory writing and move to drafting. Learn more about how to plot a memoir

Not being honest:

A memoir is a personal story and should be authentic. It’s important to be truthful about your experiences, even if they are difficult or uncomfortable to share.

Writing for revenge:

While it’s natural to want to write about tough experiences, using a memoir as a way to get back at people is not a literary goal.  Readers deserve much more than to join a writer on a journey of hate. This doesn’t mean that hard facts must be avoided, but a memoir’s before and after story generally ends up with a wiser protagonist and reader.

Not seeking feedback:

It’s important to get feedback from others, whether it’s from a writing group, a trusted friend, or an editor. Other people can help identify areas that need improvement and provide valuable insights into the story.You may join a writers group, seek writing workshops, hire a developmental and final editor, or all of the above.

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